Tantric Massage – Awakening the Masculine
Tantra is the connection between spirituality and sensuality. During this massage session, both aspects will be merged. You will be taken in a very affectionate way on a sensual journey through your body, through the vortex of Joy, Ecstasy and Bliss. I gently stroke, massage and nurture your body- my touch becomes a form of worship. All of their senses will be awakened – Sight, Smell, Sound, Taste and Touch.
You are a sentient being- and these senses are a pathway back to our Divine Truth. Your body is a Temple- for it houses God within it. This Temple becomes my altar. I am here to worship and anoint it. As I gently massage and nurture your body- my touch becomes a form of worship and healing. Together we channel and cultivate sexual energy through conscious, physical stimulation.
Lingam in Sanskrit means “wand of light” and is used to describe a penis. In Tantric philosophy, lingam is respected, adored and worshipped. A Tantric Lingam Massage is a life-changing experience for a man, offering a possibility of deep healing, pleasure and even full-body orgasms. It is a place of pure relaxation and enjoyment when nothing is expected of you – something men rarely get to enjoy in our demanding society. On top of that, your lingam is connected to all the major organs in your body, so while receiving this massage, you are strengthening your physical body and health (in Chinese tradition, Lingam reflexology is believed to be stronger than hand or foot massage).
The Process
Introduction & intention setting
The session starts with a brief description of the process. I then guide you through a Tantric ritual of consecration and intention setting for the session. Then I invite you to lie down, relax and start your journey.
Exploration of senses
I begin by engaging the subtle layers of your body. using the Feather Touch, a shawl and a few other props, I invite your body to awake its full capacity to sense. In this phase, we activate your heart and we create a bridge between your Heart Chakra and your Sexual Chakra (without yet touching the genitals).
Full body massage
Massaging your full body with oil (I use the best quality natural coconut oil). On the physical level, this allows your body to relax into pleasure. On the mental level, it quits your mind. And on energy level, it activates your primary and secondary Chakras (energy centres) and clears energy channels. This is needed, so later we can easily spread your sexual energy throughout the whole body. I massage both the back and the front of your body, but I don’t yet engage your lingam. This part is around 45-60 min.
Lingam massage
Once your body is relaxed and open, we move the focus to your lingam. I offer you the gift of my full presence and admiration. All strokes are done with the uttermost love and respect for you lingam. I will use a variety of strokes, inviting you to experience new forms of touch. You may discover something new that feels very pleasant. This is an opportunity for you to move beyond the standard pattern of touching your lingam (either by your lover or yourself).
Energy sublimation & expansion
While I keep activating the energy of your lingam, I keep moving it outside of the genital area. Sexual energy is the most potent energy and when we spread it around your body, you may start laughing or crying. You may want to speak or scream. There can be some pain or discomfort, which is all welcome, as it gives an opportunity for profound healing. You may also experience a full body or energetic orgasm. There are no expectations nor agenda for this experience. And there is no wrong response. My aim is to hold space for you to experience yourself freely. This part is around 45-60 min.
Cocooning – time to process and integrate
As the session draws to a close, I invite you to lie down, giving your body an opportunity to fully integrate and evenly distribute the energy. This is also your time to tune into your body in its awake and activated state. I stay with you for support, ready to hold you and embrace you if you need this.
Closing
I guide you through a ritual to close the session. This is also the time for us to share about the experience.
Tantric Healing Sessions for Men
Verbal, bodywork, energy work – these sessions vary depending on the needs of the individual. We can address various subjects including, but not limited to, the following:
Learning Taoist Secrets to Lovemaking and transmuting sexual energy
Balancing your yin and yang energies within your own body and harmonizing them with your lover.
- Cultivating Male Sexual Energy (INjaculation)
- Sexual dysfunction, or premature or delayed ejaculation
- Early Childhood Trauma/Sexual Abuse
- Fear of Intimacy or Trust with Women
- Opening and Healing the Heart Chakra. learning to embrace unconditional LOVE at all levels
- Cleansing and balancing the Second Chakra (Sex Chakra)
- Embracing and Connecting with the Divine During Sexual Intimacy.
- Premature Ejaculation/Erectile Dysfunction Healing Session for Men
Premature Ejaculation/Erectile Dysfunction Healing Session for Men
This is a verbal session. We begin with consciousness work. We look at the limiting beliefs and past programming that contribute to the feeling of disempowerment. Learn how to surrender any disempowering thoughts, insecurities, etc that have manifested as a result of your issue. I teach you different ways to learn to get out of your head and reconnected to your own sexual energy.
The goal is to learn to be the master of your own sexual energy as opposed to having it master you. Learn various exercises, some are Taoist, and some are PC Muscle exercises (the muscle you use to get an erection, keep an erection and orgasm.)
The session includes a follow-up email in which I recap everything we went over in the session, additional consciousness exercises and written format of all the PC Muscle exercises.