Facts about men’s sexuality
If a man cannot retain his semen, a woman will never know the glories of passion!
It takes men over the age of 35, eight days to recover the vital essence and chi lost in one single ejaculation. It takes men under the age of 35, four days to recover, and that’s if they are in good health.
- 20% of male semen is composed of cerebrospinal fluid. Frequent ejaculation thus causes a chronic drain of the vital fluids that the brain and spine require to function properly. The resulting deficiency of cerebrospinal fluid can cause increasingly common conditions such as premature senility, inability to concentrate, chronic depression, loss of sexual drive, and a host of other related symptoms.” – Daniel P. Reid – The Tao of Health, Sex and Longevity
- With the regular practice of practical, easy and effective Tantric techniques, it is possible for men to orgasm without ejaculating, thereby allowing them to become multi-orgasmic and vitally enriched from their sexuality, rather than depleted.
- According to masters and Johnson, the medical definition of premature ejaculation is: When a man ejaculates before his partner orgasms, more than 50% of the time.
- Alfred Kinsey found that 75% of men ejaculate within the first 2 minutes of penetration in over half of their sexual encounters.
- Recent self reported surveys report 75% of men ejaculate within 10 minutes of penetration.
- According to the Mayo Clinic, the average time of penetration is between 2-10 minutes.
- If you don’t believe the above, we challenge you to time the actual period of penetration to ejaculation over several love-making sessions and see for yourself what your average is.
- According to Mayo clinic, continued lack of ejaculatory control may cause one or both partners to feel sexually dissatisfied and may lead to sexual tension and discord in the relationship.
- Interpersonal dynamics strongly contribute to sexual function, and premature ejaculation can be caused by lack of communication between partners, hurt feelings, unresolved conflicts, and lack of emotional intimacy.
- William Reich theorizes; premature ejaculation may be the consequence of a stasis of sexual energy in the pelvic musculature, which prevents diffusion of such energy to other parts of the body.
- “Ocean Breath” and breath control for both partners can assist in spreading the energy.
- Simple toning exercises can significantly improve ejaculatory control for men, by strengthening the p.c. muscles.
First, I wish to focus on what tantra is not. Tantra is not a religion or a method. Tantra is not a discipline or teaching (no, it is not something you are taught by Tantric Masters). Tantra is not a skill or a tool. Tantra became a way of life in certain parts of the world and is carefully adopted by some to teach certain methods of interaction. While often the teachers are well-meaning, it often creates an illusion that some people have it, and others haven’t learnt Tantra (yet).
Yet, deep down inside, within our core being, we want to connect. We want to interact with our souls (Meta-cognition), our destinies and each other. First to learn and understand that we belong (to our tribe) – and then to venture out as an individual soul, to make new connections and new discoveries and learn, and grow in a journey we’ve discovered for ourselves.