Olivia Jade Tantra Vancouver

Sacred Sexuality • Intimacy Coaching

Tantra Vancouver

What Happens During A Tantric Massage?

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Authentic Tantra Vancouver

  • An Authentic Tantric Therapist worships the whole of the body, mind & soul… using gentle caress,  her feminine intuition, pure loving intention & the lightest of fingertip touches ~ consciously building up sexual arousal, allowing it to flow through to the parts of the body that hunger for it the most.
  • A tantric massage usually finishes, depending on the needs & progress of each individual with a yoni or Lingham massage which fires the kundalini to move up through the body, thus creating moments of awakening ~ a blissful whole body orgasm.
  • Unlike the erotic tantric massage shared between lovers or offered by erotic masseurs, a tantric therapist although igniting the flames of pleasure & passion within, does not use masturbation techniques on the Lingham or yoni.  The techniques are purely for massaging these areas & creating new senses of arousal.
  • The individual is then left to rest for a while in the warm glow of his/her own ecstasy.

Male Sexuality – Sex & Tantra

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Facts about men’s sexuality

If a man cannot retain his semen, a woman will never know the glories of passion!

It takes men over the age of 35, eight days to recover the vital essence and chi lost in one single ejaculation. It takes men under the age of 35, four days to recover, and that’s if they are in good health.

  • 20% of male semen is composed of cerebrospinal fluid. Frequent ejaculation thus causes a chronic drain of the vital fluids that the brain and spine require to function properly. The resulting deficiency of cerebrospinal fluid can cause increasingly common conditions such as premature senility, inability to concentrate, chronic depression, loss of sexual drive, and a host of other related symptoms.” – Daniel P. Reid – The Tao of Health, Sex and Longevity
  • With the regular practice of practical, easy and effective Tantric techniques, it is possible for men to orgasm without ejaculating, thereby allowing them to become multi-orgasmic and vitally enriched from their sexuality, rather than depleted.
  • According to masters and Johnson, the medical definition of premature ejaculation is: When a man ejaculates before his partner orgasms, more than 50% of the time.
  • Alfred Kinsey found that 75% of men ejaculate within the first 2 minutes of penetration in over half of their sexual encounters.
  • Recent self reported surveys report 75% of men ejaculate within 10 minutes of penetration.
  • According to the Mayo Clinic, the average time of penetration is between 2-10 minutes.
  • If you don’t believe the above, we challenge you to time the actual period of penetration to ejaculation over several love-making sessions and see for yourself what your average is.
  • According to Mayo clinic, continued lack of ejaculatory control may cause one or both partners to feel sexually dissatisfied and may lead to sexual tension and discord in the relationship.
  • Interpersonal dynamics strongly contribute to sexual function, and premature ejaculation can be caused by lack of communication between partners, hurt feelings, unresolved conflicts, and lack of emotional intimacy.
  • William Reich theorizes; premature ejaculation may be the consequence of a stasis of sexual energy in the pelvic musculature, which prevents diffusion of such energy to other parts of the body.
  • “Ocean Breath” and breath control for both partners can assist in spreading the energy.
  • Simple toning exercises can significantly improve ejaculatory control for men, by strengthening the p.c. muscles.

An exploration into Tantra

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Private Tantra Sessions and Classes

My work is designed to do give you the sexual education your parents & friends never got. If you are willing to see your true self, your sexual life will never be the same. Come discover Tantra’s ancient wisdom, which will guide you to be an incredible lover. In a safe environment that will fully relax you, you will sink into healing releasing any old limiting beliefs and fears that hold you back from MORE LOVE!

You will reawaken your ability to feel sensations we often don’t take the time to explore. These are the keys to having longer, more expanded orgasmic feelings running through your body. This is your birth-rite: come & claim it!

Discover what every Conscious Lover should know:
· Powerful techniques to expertly pleasure the opposite sex
· How to Manifest and maintain lasting relationships
· The importance of sexual attraction and how to cultivate it
· How to merge your sexual self with your spiritual self
· 5 tools to increase intimacy
· How to handle other’s emotions without feeling “dumped on” or defensive
· Meditation techniques which will quiet the busy mind to maintain a healthy body, mind and soul
· Conscious communication skills; have your needs met easily
· “Self Love” Rituals; clear low self-esteem and insecurities once and for all!

Men can learn…

· The benefit’s of “Sacred Spot Massage” to prevent and relieve prostate problems, heal past traumas, and expand pleasure potential
· Step by step instructions to master “Sacred Spot Massage” for women · 15 different touch modalities
· How to have orgasms separate from ejaculation
· How to release sexual performance anxiety
· How to take control of your sexual energy by utilizing ejaculation choice

Women can learn…

· Tools to heal sexual emotional trauma from the energy body
· How to heal, awaken, and sexually THRILL your man
· How to heal the sister/mother/daughter dynamic that often prevents women from trusting themselves and the “sisterhood”
· How to re-wire your energy body so that you can enjoy those ever elusive orgasms
· The amazing effects of Amrita, the female ejaculate.

Connection to the soul, destiny and each other

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tantra yoga VancouverFirst, I wish to focus on what tantra is not. Tantra is not a religion or a method. Tantra is not a discipline or teaching (no, it is not something you are taught by Tantric Masters). Tantra is not a skill or a tool. Tantra became a way of life in certain parts of the world and is carefully adopted by some to teach certain methods of interaction. While often the teachers are well-meaning, it often creates an illusion that some people have it, and others haven’t learnt Tantra (yet).

[pullquote width=”300″ float=”left”]Let the adoration and skilled hands of your Tantric Guide Celebrate your Feminine Being Release your Power and Inner Beauty
and Rediscover your Inner Goddess[/pullquote]We are all born with Tantra. Our tantric experience and expression varies – based on taught (and often inaccurate) belief systems – passed down from generations of control, oppression, and slavery.

Tantra is a way of being – it is the way your inner most soul experiences themselves through intimate interaction with the world around you. (the word intimate does not directly translate to: sexual; Intimate means the deep connection experienced by a Mind-Body-Soul co-creation)

We are all born with Tantra. We immediately understand that it is powerful and playful and interactive. We want to experience the beautiful bond between us and the world around us in a most freeing and open way. But we are taught to be afraid of being vulnerable, our egos and teachings have scared us into believing that we are safe when we’re closed off to intimacy with the world around us.

Our teachers (parents) teach us to live with fear and shame about our most personal being – our vulnerable, naked, personal truth and being. Our peers learn to cast the focus on others when they feel vulnerable – thus perpetuating the shame and guilt on others – out of fear of being discovered themselves.

tantra yoga vancouverYet, deep down inside, within our core being, we want to connect. We want to interact with our souls (Meta-cognition), our destinies and each other. First to learn and understand that we belong (to our tribe) – and then to venture out as an individual soul, to make new connections and new discoveries and learn, and grow in a journey we’ve discovered for ourselves.

And then to understand that our core being survives all, and we can be in a state of Personal Power while at the same time be open and vulnerable in how we connect, intimately with the world around us.

Tantra means WAVE or WEAVE. 
- A wave in an ocean of waves, created and influenced by all other waves, carrying our own energy and receiving and giving energy in an interaction of waves among waves
OR (and)
- Part of a weave interconnected and flowing within and among all other weaves.
In a modern, new age translation this means ‘being a part of the fabric of life’ or as some people call it ‘the Matrix’.

There is NO PARTICULAR WAY – There is no better truth – The truth you seek is an illusion of your ego – attempting to maintain itself (separated) through fear of the unknown. Being truly connected, allowing all truths to co-exist, without judgement and with full participation and personal responsibility and interaction gives our egos the confidence of survival and the skill of being.

Being in the Now, connecting with Self, manifesting Creation, sacred connectedness with All is how Tantra is re-discovered, re-experienced and the true self is fearlessly able to allow itself to interact with the world around you.

If we seek to shed the defenses of our ego, we develop Tantra.

We start within a safe, shame-free, guilt-free environment where we interact with a trusted guide who assists and guides your personal experience overcoming personal boundaries, never before explored. Providing the experience and trust in oneself that those fictional boundaries are shattered once and for all.

Dare to to Experience Tantra

The Tantric Experience is a way of letting go. A way to experience, and practice, being in ecstasy with the world, and practicing ‘letting go’ and true openness. A way of giving and receiving that is open and intimate and trusting.

Combining Tantra with a partner is a very rewarding and sacred experience. The service that Tantric Being offers is not a ‘partner experience’. it is a Personal Experience, provided by your Tantric Guide. Once you have experienced the boundary-altering (or shattering) experience of being guided through your own tantric experience, you will be more able to open up to a trusted partner or lover in your private life. In a Tantric experience with your partner/lover you will soon discover how to awaken trust and intimacy among souls through allowing your Tantric Being to emerge.

What is Tantra?

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“The philosophy of Tantra, which most people mistakenly think is only about sex, is actually about weaving. The word Tantra literally means “loom” and the verb tan means “to stretch.” Tantra is the spiritual practice of weaving together opposite energies, specifically the upward and downward currents of Shakti and Shiva, of yin and yang. Sexuality, a subset of Tantra, is a sacred act that embodies this union on the physical plane. The ultimate balance of these two forces, however, occurs when we bring them through all the chakras and balance them in the heart.

Tantra seeks to obtain enlightenment not by renunciation, but by embracing the full experience of living. Tantra delights in the senses, desires, and feelings, and is focused on the expansion of consciousness that comes from a dynamic, sensate connection to life. Tantra does not advise us to cease action, but to transform our acts into creative evolution. Tantra is the harmonious weaving of primordial opposities: mortal and divine, male and female, Shiva and Shakti, spirit and matter, Heaven and Earth.”

~ Anodea Judith in Eastern Body, Western Mind

House of love

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A house of love with no limits,
a presence more beautiful than venus or the moon,
a beauty whose image fills the mirror of the heart.
~Rumi

Oh how I love this… Please tell me what you think the house is?

I believe it’s a wonderful goddess full of love and presence.
I truly believe that it is all all about love and the place where we believe it resides.

The fourth center is called as the Anahatha Chakra, meaning the heart center. It has twelve petals and is placed behind the sternum in the spinal cord.

The Heart Chakra is the home of the Self, the Spirit or Atma – all mean the same thing. Time and again Shri Mataji has stressed that, “You are nothing but your eternal Spirit.” In this way She is telling us that we have to realize and become our Spirit, and leave behind the futility of the illusion we live in. We start the process of becoming our Spirit after Self-Realization, as we start to lose our false identifications with our body, mind and feelings. Only after this enlightenment can we take our Attention to our heart and cleanse it. The Spirit can only manifest when our heart is open and clean, at which point we feel the eternal Joy of Creation and the meaning and purpose of our place in it. If functioning properly, it enables us to feel our Self-Transcendence, generate and radiate love. The state of vibrations maintains and revitalizes our own human systems as well as those of others.

Pure love, which enlightens all, is the real quality of the Heart Chakra. In the unrealized state we rarely love for love’s sake. Because of our conditioning we confuse feelings of love with those of possession, sex and selfishness. Pure love is detached and gives without motive. True love is the quality that emanates from the Spirit and not from the body or mind. Bodily attraction is physical and the mind does not love — it merely wants. When the want of the mind is attained, then the novelty wears off. For instance a child is excited and attached to a new toy, but after a few days, as the novelty wears off, the excitement dies. The same occurs with relationships which are based simply on physical attraction. That which is illusory cannot love or be loved.

Love is often mistakenly taken as restricted to male and female. In fact Love is the flow of life is all limbs, between children/parents, brothers/sisters, friends, senior citizens etc. Where many people share and care, then the whole society opens up its Heart center. It becomes a collective society and changes the world. This is the power of Love. Love is the principle behind all Creation. We say that God is Love and love is God because in its depths we cease to be. In true Love there is no “I” and no “You” – there is simply the merging of the Spirit. In this state we experience true human unity, the true oneness of life. Physically we can appear as different colors, shapes, characteristics, but as we become the Spirit the drop becomes the Ocean.

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Sutra 5

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Follow the path of the radiant life force

as she flashes upward like lightning
through your body.

Attend simultaneously
to the perineum, that bright place between the legs,
to the crown of the skull,
and to that shining star-place above the head.

Notice how this living electricity becomes ever more subtle
as she rises, radiant as the morning sun
until she streams outward from
the top of the head into all-embracing gratitude.

Thus become intimate with the life of all beings.

Or trace the river of life that flows through you,
the luxuriously rising energies,
Gradually kissing each of the centers along the spine,
Savor each particle of color along the way.

Enter each area tenderly, loving as you go
and then finally, gently
dissolving in the crown of the head.

Credit Lorin Roche

Luminous Awareness

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You are the light of awareness
embodied in time and space.

Embodied awareness brings forth
embodied consciousness,
which is radiant light.

Bring your attention to the field of luminous awareness
that illuminates your experience right now.
Without this clear light of awareness
you would be without experience.

You cannot think or imagine your way
to this natural luminosity, although it
illuminates your thoughts and memories
and everything else in your experience,
as it is also illuminating itself.

Light illuminates light.

The primordial Shakti,
the Light of Manifestation,
is this self arising luminosity which permeates:

1~ the object of your awareness
2~ the one who is aware,
3~ and awareness itself.

Becoming aware of awareness
within yourself and others is
Sri Vidya, the realization of radiance.

In your embodiment practice you unclench
the fixation onto the appearances in the mind.

By recognizing and relaxing the automatic
mental and physical and emotional
reactivity towards your experiences,
the energetic knots in your body softens
and more Prana Shakti (breath and life force)
is allowed to flow through.
You open as a translucent and continuously unfolding
embodiment of luminous awareness

Lead me from opacity to clarity.
Lead me from the complicated to the simple.
Lead me from the obscure to the obvious.

Lead me from confrontation to wide openness.
Lead me to the place I never left,
Where there is peace, and peace.

~ The Upanishads