Tantric Massage

Sacred Sexual Healing Arts

December 17, 2014 by Olivia

Our method is a fusion of Sacred Sexual Healing Arts, Taoism, Tantra, Buddhism and other teachings

You can find the roots of Sacred Sexuality in the ancient cultures around the world. Being it an Egyptian priestess or a Tantric Goddess divided by time and place there were all there to initiate, teach and give the knowledge to the next generation. The process for becoming sexually and spiritually whole, so that we can reclaim our power, expand our container and experience more pleasure was important all trough the ages.All true religions in their pure, original forms considered sex to be sacred. We conceived trough a sexual act and our true nature includes sexuality. So God created sex and mankind corrupted it. See the old scriptures here or here or in many other sources…

Once the sensual and the sacred are integrated, intentions are set, presents and awareness are there every sexual act become healing. Sexual act not necessary involve sexuality like we learned in the west. It is not about the intercourse… it can be a hold, touch, hug or even just being present with one-other. It is about creating a space where you feel safe, where the present and intentions are aligned to open you up. To face the issues around sexuality and to move trough them with present. When the wounds of the feminine and masculine aspect are healed we step into a realm of higher consciousness. The Sacred Sexual Healing is first effect your body/mind/spirit harmony. ” But as you go deeper into practices you discover the truth of the individual body temple is a microcosm of the collective consciousness. As we heal our own shallow breathing patterns, we’ll stop polluting the air. As we heal our unhealthy eating habits, we’ll stop consuming and wasting non renewable resources on the planet. As we heal our emotional wounding, the world’s waters will run clear again. As we heal our sexual wounds, all beings may be happy and all beings may be free.” (source)

There are many wonderful books that outline the history of sacred sex, ancient Tantric scriptures and sexual Shamanic practices.

Connection to the soul, destiny and each other

August 13, 2014 by Olivia

First, I wish to focus on what tantra is not. Tantra is not a religion or a method. Tantra is not a discipline or teaching (no, it is not something you are taught by Tantric Masters). Tantra is not a skill or a tool. Tantra became a way of life in certain parts of the world and is carefully adopted by some to teach certain methods of interaction. While often the teachers are well-meaning, it often creates an illusion that some people have it, and others haven’t learnt Tantra (yet).

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and Rediscover your Inner Goddess[/pullquote]We are all born with Tantra. Our tantric experience and expression varies – based on taught (and often inaccurate) belief systems – passed down from generations of control, oppression, and slavery.

Tantra is a way of being – it is the way your inner most soul experiences themselves through intimate interaction with the world around you. (the word intimate does not directly translate to: sexual; Intimate means the deep connection experienced by a Mind-Body-Soul co-creation)

We are all born with Tantra. We immediately understand that it is powerful and playful and interactive. We want to experience the beautiful bond between us and the world around us in a most freeing and open way. But we are taught to be afraid of being vulnerable, our egos and teachings have scared us into believing that we are safe when we’re closed off to intimacy with the world around us.

Our teachers (parents) teach us to live with fear and shame about our most personal being – our vulnerable, naked, personal truth and being. Our peers learn to cast the focus on others when they feel vulnerable – thus perpetuating the shame and guilt on others – out of fear of being discovered themselves.

Yet, deep down inside, within our core being, we want to connect. We want to interact with our souls (Meta-cognition), our destinies and each other. First to learn and understand that we belong (to our tribe) – and then to venture out as an individual soul, to make new connections and new discoveries and learn, and grow in a journey we’ve discovered for ourselves.

And then to understand that our core being survives all, and we can be in a state of Personal Power while at the same time be open and vulnerable in how we connect, intimately with the world around us.

Tantra means WAVE or WEAVE.  - A wave in an ocean of waves, created and influenced by all other waves, carrying our own energy and receiving and giving energy in an interaction of waves among waves OR (and) - Part of a weave interconnected and flowing within and among all other weaves. In a modern, new age translation this means ‘being a part of the fabric of life’ or as some people call it ‘the Matrix’.

There is NO PARTICULAR WAY – There is no better truth – The truth you seek is an illusion of your ego – attempting to maintain itself (separated) through fear of the unknown. Being truly connected, allowing all truths to co-exist, without judgement and with full participation and personal responsibility and interaction gives our egos the confidence of survival and the skill of being.

Being in the Now, connecting with Self, manifesting Creation, sacred connectedness with All is how Tantra is re-discovered, re-experienced and the true self is fearlessly able to allow itself to interact with the world around you.

If we seek to shed the defenses of our ego, we develop Tantra.

We start within a safe, shame-free, guilt-free environment where we interact with a trusted guide who assists and guides your personal experience overcoming personal boundaries, never before explored. Providing the experience and trust in oneself that those fictional boundaries are shattered once and for all.

Dare to to Experience Tantra

The Tantric Experience is a way of letting go. A way to experience, and practice, being in ecstasy with the world, and practicing ‘letting go’ and true openness. A way of giving and receiving that is open and intimate and trusting.

Combining Tantra with a partner is a very rewarding and sacred experience. The service that Tantric Being offers is not a ‘partner experience’. it is a Personal Experience, provided by your Tantric Guide. Once you have experienced the boundary-altering (or shattering) experience of being guided through your own tantric experience, you will be more able to open up to a trusted partner or lover in your private life. In a Tantric experience with your partner/lover you will soon discover how to awaken trust and intimacy among souls through allowing your Tantric Being to emerge.

Tantra Massage Vancouver

December 11, 2013 by Olivia

What can I expect in a Tantric Massage?

“Tantra bodywork is connective, restorative, compassionate, healing, loving, arousing, experiential, powerful and potentially life changing if you allow yourself to surrender to the journey without expectations – only an open heart and beginner’s mind is required” ~ Olivia Jade

Tantra can be an overwhelmingly transcendental experience for those who are first starting out on the journey, so I feel it is vital to ensure that in order for the curious to begin, it’s appropriate you understand that we ease you gently by way of ‘massage’ (which is a basic way of describing the movement of energy around your body facilitated through mindful touch).

Okay, now that we have this cleared up, let me give you an overview of this session so that you may feel more inclined to venture into what may be new territory…firstly, the penis in tantric speak is called the Lingam as it is part of the Sanskrit terminology, and in relation to tantric rituals, this session is about respecting, honouring and infusing love through touch in order to arouse deep sensations that may resonate at an energy level within the physical body.

In order to embrace the divine aspects that can arise, it’s valuable for you to accept that your attitude is what can make this a special experience for you. Secondly, it’s the divine supportive and sensual environment upon which you allow yourself to surrender that can heighten the overall experience toward bliss.

Preparation takes time and dedication on my part, as I prepare a quiet, therapeutic candle lit space which is decorated in welcoming hues (orange for sacral resonance, red for base chakra grounding) along with aromas of gently simmering natural essence. Once we’ve greeted one another and chatted about your intentions for the session, I may invite you to stand or sit face-to-face where we continue to embrace or hold hands, look into each other’s eyes, and breathe deeply into the belly. (Here, depending on your tantric experience and length of booking, we can decide whether you wish to practice tantric technique or simply chill out to the relaxing meditational component.) After this simple yet subtle and stirring connection, I will ask that you lay down before lavishing your body with natural oils.

You will be taken on an adventure of the spirit, dipping into the deep valleys of ecstasy and diving into the realms of pleasure with my voice guiding you all of the way. At times I may be silent if, given your purpose is to refrain from ejaculation (PE), and simply lead you through the peaks so that you learn control. If, at any point, you seem close to ejaculation, I will slow my movements to reduce stimulation and let you cool down before beginning again. I may encourage you to take deep breaths. Same with those of you who may experience ED; we will take this into consideration when designing your session.

It has been reviewed that I’m masterful and those who return have informed me that they’ve been extremely surprised by the absolute dedication I bring into this journey with you; adapting my own style of deep, intuitive re ki pressure point to those parts of your body I can sense are calling out for more strengthening and rejuvenating. Once we gauge together where it is your physical and spiritual body requires further embracing, I will ask your permission to continue, otherwise we will simply move along into a more light and sensual dance.

An additional part of my session involves shifting the energy with a motion of both hands around you, coming up from the base of your spine into your heart space. This energy is extremely comforting and loving either during or after the experience of such pleasure, and I’ve been ecstatic at your acceptance of such an embrace. Continuing with the body, I may move to the sacred spot is another way to delay ejaculation. If you start to feel close, I will decrease stimulation. If I can hold back your orgasm six times, a tremendous amount of sexual energy will be stored, which you can retain and circulate throughout other parts of your body. If you choose to ejaculate, your orgasm will probably be much more intense than usual.

Release is offered in order to alleviate any resistance that may occur if your body is reconnecting with old beliefs that this is the only way you will feel ‘gratified’ as in orgasmic. Note; ejaculation is not orgasm and I will have to keep reminding you to take deep breaths if this is a new experience and your body is unable to contemplate further sensory cues. Those who have responded well to tantric bodywork in the past often prefer to extend their energetic experience in order to sustain and/or reach body orgasm.

Inspired and Creative Coaching

December 11, 2013 by Olivia

We are living in an era where people are more disconnected from their authentic and creative selves, thus creating an epidemic to which people must learn the art form of deeper connection.

Our busy lifestyles are preventing us from connection to our body, mind and soul (or our heart) and over a long period of time, a block is formed through our energy system. This results in stress, chronic fatigue, illness, irritability, anxieties, and an overall feeling of loss of control. Each of us have learned an “impressionable blueprint” that has programmed our belief in how we eat, how we work, how we relate to others in relationships, how we formulate friendships, how we harness our creative process, and how we cope.

The people who are closest to us often live the same busy pace of life thus not being able to offer the same intimate, deep level of commitment to our personal or professional growth as we may need.

I am a type of healer who is preparing for a new world, full of different ways, rooted in ancient freedoms. I address the soul through a connection of the mind, the body and the chakra system. I am committed to each individual’s journey with their soul.

Some may define this role as a coach, a healer, a guru, a buddy or friend. Our soul will let us know when the time has come to be nurtured and it is no coincidence that you have found this page. I offer individual and group coaching, always blending various modalities, techniques and philosophies from various spiritual practices.

The modalities may vary based on an individual’s need but the result is the same: an authentic spiritual and psychological awakening that affects all areas of one’s life.

My practice is mostly in Vancouver, BC though I travel to other cities in Canada, Europe and South America

If you would like to converse with me outside of immediate face to face, Skype roundez-vous is please email me for more information