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Tantra Yoga

Energy

October 13, 2015 by Olivia

Tantric energyEssential to Tantric and Taoist teachings is the understanding of life – ourselves and the whole cosmos – as an energetic process. Both traditions recognize a masculine and feminine balance and a vital life force, through which we can experience Oneness.

In Tantric teachings, the primal male is called Shiva. He is the initiating principle, consciousness and pure light. The female is called Shakti and is the essential nature of becoming, the dynamic energy behind and within manifestation, of bringing forth creation and generating life. The vital force that creates and sustains us lives within us, and is called Kundalini: this is the energy within the psychic body lying dormant at the base of the spine. We can learn to connect with it and through a process of removing blocks, reunite with our Divine Source and experience Oneness, Non-Duality.

The Chinese tradition of Taoism emphasizes living in harmony with the Tao, the source and essence of everything that exists. ‘Tao’ has many meanings, it is the ‘way’, ‘path’ or ‘principle’, and also ‘reality’ or ‘nature’. Whilst the Tao pervades all, we experience the polar opposite qualities of Yang (light, masculine) and Yin (dark, feminine) in constant dynamic engagement. These female and male energies both oppose and complement each other and can become balanced and integrate. When they meet in the union we experience Oneness. The Taoists refer to the vital essence that the Universe is made of as Qi.

Most people are familiar with various other types of energy work and healing modalities, such as Reiki, which similarly recognizes our energetic make-up and connection to Source energy and consciousness.

As energetic beings, we can work consciously with this essential life force, to effect positive change and realize ourselves more fully.

My work primarily catalyzes energetic processes, and all bodywork experienced in sessions has an energetic intent.

Working with the sexual energy is much more potent and effects transformation more rapidly and powerfully, but sometimes subtler work can be just as effective or more appropriate for the individual. It is important to note that working with sexual energy does not necessitate an erotic context. This is, ultimately, a yogic practice of internal alchemy, and the erotic hue is entirely optional.

In addition to the facilitation during sessions, you will be trained in techniques that you can employ on your own or with a partner to continue to grow and expand your energetic sensitivity, capacity and power.

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Get in touch if you would like to discuss how working with energy could be valuable to you.

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Tantra: The art of life

July 6, 2015 by Olivia

When people ask me to define tantra, I often begin by explaining that although tantra in North America focuses a lot on sexuality, traditionally tantric spirituality is about all parts of life. It is a path of finding enlightenment through the body.

What does that mean? Most spiritual traditions on this planet have focused on divorcing the Spirit from the body, on trying to get back to God as fast as they can by denying the body, and by judging Spirit as being more sacred or holy than Matter. Christianity, for example, used fasting and abstinence to leave the body behind and transcend to God. Sexuality and pleasure were looked upon as obstacles to holiness.

Tantra is different.

In Tantra, we see sexuality as a direct path to God. The sexual practices of red tantra open up the body to an experience of bliss that is as powerful as any drug. But there is more to Tantra than blissing out and having a lot of really great sex. Practicing tantra brings up the big woundings for healing. These wounds may come from trauma, neglect, rape, sexual abuse, or shaming. Through several years of deep practice, I healed many things in myself, including anxiety, letting go of control, self-love. Many of my clients have healed past sexual trauma and abuse. This healing leads to an experience of life and relationships that is very different. I experience as much or more pleasure in my relationships as I do pain. And when I feel pain its intensity is often greatly reduced. I also enjoy extremely good health with very little pain in my body. In addition to all these blessings, tantra has taught me how to be fully alive, vital and joyful in my skin. I walk around smiling and feeling my connection to everyone and to all of nature most of the time. And I’ve learned that this joy comes from letting the sexual energy move through my whole body. Most people call this energy sex when it’s in the pelvis, love when it’s in their heart, and spirituality when it’s in the head.

It’s all the same energy.

So for me, sexual energy is no different, better, or worse, than any other kind of energy. But the implications are even bigger. If I practice tantra, and it’s all the same energy, then tantra can be applied to every part of life. This means that I can apply the principles of tantra to parenting, my community, my romantic relationships, my business, my finances, my physical health and wellness, and even to my enlightenment path. This viewpoint has given birth to a life where I practice my spirituality in each moment and with each person in each situation. There is no separation for me between the tantric practice that I do with my beloved and the way that I speak to the teller at the bank.

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Tantra Yoga Practice

December 18, 2014 by Olivia

Yoga is a holistic expression that employs physical, mental, and spiritual practices or disciplines.

Yogis practice hoping to attain an enhanced state of living and a state of permanent peace. The term yoga can be derived from either of two roots, yujir yoga (to yoke) or yuj samādhau (to concentrate). Tantra Yoga Vancouver

According to Yoga-Yajnavalkya, Yoga is the union of the individual psyche with the transcendental self. There are many styles of yoga, each with distinct protocol and traditions. Tantra yoga is a specific style of meditation and ritual. Its goal is to awaken our ability to see and experience awe in each moment, inviting more and more divine in the mundane. The universe we experience is the concrete manifestation of the divine energy that creates and maintains it: Tantric practice seeks to contact and channel that energy within the human microcosm by means of ritual in order to achieve creativity and freedom.

Tantra comes from the words Tanoti (to expand, stretch, extend) and Trayoti (to liberate or free). Thus, tantra is the practice of expanding one’s awareness to everything and liberating one’s existence beyond the material and into the spiritual.

“The science and practice of Tantra has been likened to honey (madhu), in that it reveals the sweetness that is life in this world, as well as within spiritual unfolding.” -KATIE SILCOX

In Tantra yoga, Shakti (the Divine Feminine absolute) is focal. The Mother Goddess is seen in all things, as she is primordial. As she births us, nurtures us and ushers us home, she reminds us through stories and practices that we are all creative in nature, that energy assumes many forms and that we are divinity in human form. Shakta Tantra Yoga is the exploring of the Divine through self discovery and liberation of the individual.

I am passionate about pursuing my Shakta Tantra Yoga practice, and I share this energy with seekers in service. My personal spiritual sadhana (practice) seamlessly fuses white and red tantra. Each day, I engage in a sequence of asanas (postures), pranayama (breathwork), dhyana (meditation) and dharmic study in an effort to purify my mind/ body and align my energy with higher consciousness. I have a clean diet and I receive body energy work almost daily. I live and work in a sanctuary. My life is spiritually oriented and rooted in temple culture, therefore, both I and my services have a tantric vibration. The energy cultivated in my practice flavours our interactions.

Naturally, a good teacher practices what they preach- so my sanctuary services are geared towards orienting seekers as to how they may incorporate the revolutionary transformational lifestyle practices that I have learned over my years of practice. My custom sanctuary services link yogic practices (including asana, pranayama, visualization, bandha, energy work, mudras, mantras, puja, subtle anatomy, meditation, bhakti and more) into a single, methodical, personalized and deeply enriching ceremony that acts, in the moment, as an expression of our truest self.

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Tao

December 17, 2014 by Olivia

The basis of all Taoist thinking is that Qi (Energy) is a part of everything that exists. Its central principle is that all of life is part of an inseparable whole, an interconnected unity which arises from a deep, mysterious, and essentially unexplainable source.

fullyalive_buttonAs an inseparable part of the Tao, human beings can gain understanding and become attuned to the natural laws of the universe through inner meditation and outer observation. Aligning ourselves with these principles allows life to be lived in harmony with the Tao. Indeed our way of life becomes the Way, a full expression of the Tao.

These natural laws are illustrated by the well-known symbol of the Yin and Yang. It represents the balance of opposites in the universe. When they are equally present, all is calm. When one is outweighed by the other, there is confusion and disarray. The two swirling shapes inside the symbol give the impression of change- the only constant factor in the universe.

The most traditional view is that Yin represents aspects of the feminine: being soft, cool, calm, introspective, and healing while Yang represents the masculine: being hard, hot, energetic, moving, and sometimes aggressive. Yin is also represented as night and Yang as day.

The Yin and Yang apply to sex as well. In the Taoist view of sexuality, the body is revered and sex is wholeheartedly encouraged. Taoist sex is not just about pleasing the man. Taoists believe that a man can only increase and nourish his own vitality by stimulating and pleasing a woman into orgasm. The female’s orgasm activates and strengthens her life force, which in turn has a nurturing and balancing effect on the life force of the male. The primary purpose behind Taoist lovemaking is this transformation of sexual energy into healing energy and vitality, resulting in better health and longevity.

Similar to Tantra, Taoism has many facets, sexuality being only one aspect. Taoists do not merely teach exercises to enhance the pleasure of partnership. They also encourage self-mastery and self-awareness. They clearly teach the importance of drawing in the sexual energy and experience, rather than focusing on sexual organs and external stimuli. Any focus on the sexual organs is used only to introduce the practitioner to more advanced concepts. Taoism also puts an emphasis on self-control and moderation. Complete abstinence is considered as equally dangerous as an excessive sexual indulgence.

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Sacred Sexual Healing Arts

December 17, 2014 by Olivia

Our method is a fusion of Sacred Sexual Healing Arts, Taoism, Tantra, Buddhism and other teachings

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You can find the roots of Sacred Sexuality in the ancient cultures around the world. Being it an Egyptian priestess or a Tantric Goddess divided by time and place there were all there to initiate, teach and give the knowledge to the next generation.   The process for becoming sexually and spiritually whole, so that we can reclaim our power, expand our container and experience more pleasure was important all trough the ages.All true religions in their pure, original forms considered sex to be sacred. We conceived trough a sexual act and our true nature includes sexuality. So God created sex and mankind corrupted it. See the old scriptures here or here or in many other sources…

Once the sensual and the sacred are integrated, intentions are set, presents  and awareness are there every sexual act become healing. Sexual act not necessary involve sexuality like we learned in the west. It is not about the intercourse… it can be a hold, touch, hug or even just being present with one-other. It is about creating a space where you feel safe, where the present and intentions are aligned to open you up. To face the issues around sexuality and to move trough them with present. When the wounds of the feminine and masculine aspect are healed we step into a realm of higher consciousness. The Sacred Sexual Healing is first effect your body/mind/spirit harmony. ” But as you go deeper into practices you discover the truth of the individual body temple is a microcosm of the collective consciousness. As we heal our own shallow breathing patterns, we’ll stop polluting the air. As we heal our unhealthy eating habits, we’ll stop consuming and wasting non renewable resources on the planet. As we heal our emotional wounding, the world’s waters will run clear again. As we heal our sexual wounds, all beings may be happy and all beings may be free.” (source)

There are many wonderful books that outline the history of sacred sex, ancient Tantric scriptures and sexual Shamanic practices.

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Connection to the soul, destiny and each other

August 13, 2014 by Olivia

tantra yoga VancouverFirst, I wish to focus on what tantra is not. Tantra is not a religion or a method. Tantra is not a discipline or teaching (no, it is not something you are taught by Tantric Masters). Tantra is not a skill or a tool. Tantra became a way of life in certain parts of the world and is carefully adopted by some to teach certain methods of interaction. While often the teachers are well-meaning, it often creates an illusion that some people have it, and others haven’t learnt Tantra (yet).

[pullquote width=”300″ float=”left”]Let the adoration and skilled hands of your Tantric Guide Celebrate your Feminine Being Release your Power and Inner Beauty
and Rediscover your Inner Goddess[/pullquote]We are all born with Tantra. Our tantric experience and expression varies – based on taught (and often inaccurate) belief systems – passed down from generations of control, oppression, and slavery.

Tantra is a way of being – it is the way your inner most soul experiences themselves through intimate interaction with the world around you. (the word intimate does not directly translate to: sexual; Intimate means the deep connection experienced by a Mind-Body-Soul co-creation)

We are all born with Tantra. We immediately understand that it is powerful and playful and interactive. We want to experience the beautiful bond between us and the world around us in a most freeing and open way. But we are taught to be afraid of being vulnerable, our egos and teachings have scared us into believing that we are safe when we’re closed off to intimacy with the world around us.

Our teachers (parents) teach us to live with fear and shame about our most personal being – our vulnerable, naked, personal truth and being. Our peers learn to cast the focus on others when they feel vulnerable – thus perpetuating the shame and guilt on others – out of fear of being discovered themselves.

tantra yoga vancouverYet, deep down inside, within our core being, we want to connect. We want to interact with our souls (Meta-cognition), our destinies and each other. First to learn and understand that we belong (to our tribe) – and then to venture out as an individual soul, to make new connections and new discoveries and learn, and grow in a journey we’ve discovered for ourselves.

And then to understand that our core being survives all, and we can be in a state of Personal Power while at the same time be open and vulnerable in how we connect, intimately with the world around us.

Tantra means WAVE or WEAVE. 
- A wave in an ocean of waves, created and influenced by all other waves, carrying our own energy and receiving and giving energy in an interaction of waves among waves
OR (and)
- Part of a weave interconnected and flowing within and among all other weaves.
In a modern, new age translation this means ‘being a part of the fabric of life’ or as some people call it ‘the Matrix’.

There is NO PARTICULAR WAY – There is no better truth – The truth you seek is an illusion of your ego – attempting to maintain itself (separated) through fear of the unknown. Being truly connected, allowing all truths to co-exist, without judgement and with full participation and personal responsibility and interaction gives our egos the confidence of survival and the skill of being.

Being in the Now, connecting with Self, manifesting Creation, sacred connectedness with All is how Tantra is re-discovered, re-experienced and the true self is fearlessly able to allow itself to interact with the world around you.

If we seek to shed the defenses of our ego, we develop Tantra.

We start within a safe, shame-free, guilt-free environment where we interact with a trusted guide who assists and guides your personal experience overcoming personal boundaries, never before explored. Providing the experience and trust in oneself that those fictional boundaries are shattered once and for all.

Dare to to Experience Tantra

The Tantric Experience is a way of letting go. A way to experience, and practice, being in ecstasy with the world, and practicing ‘letting go’ and true openness. A way of giving and receiving that is open and intimate and trusting.

Combining Tantra with a partner is a very rewarding and sacred experience. The service that Tantric Being offers is not a ‘partner experience’. it is a Personal Experience, provided by your Tantric Guide. Once you have experienced the boundary-altering (or shattering) experience of being guided through your own tantric experience, you will be more able to open up to a trusted partner or lover in your private life. In a Tantric experience with your partner/lover you will soon discover how to awaken trust and intimacy among souls through allowing your Tantric Being to emerge.

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